Thursday, February 7, 2008

His, now Yours


So I am off the phone with a female friend, and all i could think of was to write !!!!.

Before she met you .....

Trust was received at first

Then slowly deceived.
Next, games thats familiar to all
Started as a joke, then slowly turned into something unpredicted.

Truth they say is a safety net, not everyone believes that.
Can you blame her? she doesnt know better.
With something as fragile as trust, once broken, it takes a while to rebuild.
What is trust, if the ones you r to trust wants a bargain out of it?

When she met you..........

It is but a word, but still has great meaning
It is a feeling thats always worth achieving

It has been seen in a wrong way but hopes for the better
Trust is simple it self, it shows you are hers and she is yours

You say you trust her i hope she does too
But can you blame her she hasn't seen better

Be caring and loving coz she has been burnt.
But keep in mind that only trust can fuel the love between you two.

I know its sad
And you are mad

But you have to prove you are you and not him.





8 comments:

dScR?Be said...

hmmmmm....

James Tubman said...

trust is essential but you can actually develop a high sense of trust in a person if you have high expectations that they will do what you want

high expectations is the hidden key to any succesful relationship

it will take you far in life

this means treating the person like you know with a one hundred percent assuredness that they will do what you ask or what they say they will do

there's books out on this subject

Miz Arkitect said...

@james tubman: nicly put out. but its still hard to tell her to trust when it was taken granted before. i cant have a friendship or relationship without trust i feel its pointless but its hard to let her see it that way. books sud help wud let her know .. thanks

James Tubman said...

i understand completely

i've been hurt in my life before too but i realized that people are more likely to do something when you have an unflenching belief in their capacity to do it

Miz Arkitect said...

@jt: totally agree with that. if u going to accuse ,me of cheating, i might as well. If there is no trust then what's the point... trust is totally underestimated.

desperate lady said...

ok what is this about? i find it hard understanding poems and all, let me go read again and see if i'll get it.

desperate lady said...

ok i think i get it a lil, so ur friend is having trust issues right? cos she's been hurt before?
ok i'm still lost lol.

Miz Arkitect said...

@ dl; lol its all about trust she was hurt n now the new guy is suffering for wot the other guy did. should she give trust a second chance? its like she needs to water their relationship with trust but what if the water kills the plant??? u digg?
@Hw: hope she does !!!